The Firstfruits of Redemption
        
        
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          “Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. And God hath
        
        
          both raised up the Lord, and will also raise up us by his own power.”
        
        
          What are we talking about? First, he’s talking about the body—the body that can commit
        
        
          fornication, the physical body you have right there, right now. He said that your body is not
        
        
          made for fornication. Why was it necessary to say that? Because people will tell you, “Well, why
        
        
          did God give me a desire? Why did God give me this sex drive? It must be natural.” No, it has to
        
        
          be controlled, like numerous other things. You were not just made for that. Sex is not necessary
        
        
          to have a normal life. The enemy will try to tell young people, unmarried single people, older
        
        
          people who are not married, “You can’t be healthy unless you have sex. You have needs.” No,
        
        
          your body is not just made for that; your body was made for the Lord. There’s nothing wrong
        
        
          with sex between a husband and wife in the holy union of marriage, and people can enjoy
        
        
          themselves, and that’s alright, but it’s not necessary to have a fulfilled life. Otherwise, what
        
        
          about Jesus and others who never married? It’s not necessary.
        
        
          If you are single, do yourself a favor and don’t watch, listen to, feed on, and read stuff about sex
        
        
          and stir yourself up for no reason. Make it easy on yourself. Don’t watch, listen to, or read it,
        
        
          because the more you feed something, the stronger it gets. The more you feed those desires, the
        
        
          stronger they’re going to get. If you don’t feed them, they’ll get weaker and weaker, and they
        
        
          won’t bother you so much.
        
        
          Everyone is human. Everyone has a body. Everyone has desires. But the desire should be
        
        
          controlled. Don’t believe the lie, “Well, it’s unhealthy unless I have sex.” No. You can be
        
        
          fulfilled. Sex is not necessary. Married people are supposed to have a sex life. The Bible says not
        
        
          to defraud one another. (1 Corinthians 7:2-5) If someone says, “My wife has gotten too
        
        
          holy…My husband got too holy… We haven’t had relations in a year...” That’s wrong. That’s
        
        
          against the Word.
        
        
          For people who are not married, it’s another situation, and that’s what I’m talking about. If
        
        
          you’re not married, the enemy will try to tell you, “You’re unhealthy, you have all this tension,
        
        
          and you need to have sex. You have needs.” He’s a liar. Your body is not just made for that;
        
        
          that’s not why you have a body. Your body is for the Lord. And the Lord, the One who raised
        
        
          Jesus up, is going to do what? He’s going to raise your body up.
        
        
          Read verse 15 out loud:
        
        
          “Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ?”
        
        
          Know ye not, or don’t you know? If the Lord says, “Don’t you know?” you can figure that a lot
        
        
          of people don’t know. Why would He say it? Which body is he talking about?  He is talking
        
        
          about your body—the one you can commit fornication with. Your body is a member of Christ.
        
        
          There are all kinds of groups that will tell you, “No, now, your spirit is a part of Christ, but this
        
        
          old sinful flesh, it’s decaying, and one of these days, it’s going to be gone, and really, this flesh is
        
        
          not all that important.” It’s not much of a stretch from saying that to saying, “Well, if you do
        
        
          some stuff with your body, since it’s just the old body, it’s not really that big of a deal, because
        
        
          it’s only your
        
        
          spirit
        
        
          that’s important
        
        
          .
        
        
          ” No, those are lies. It goes on to say in this very passage